Sunday, July 13, 2008

A new chapter?

So as I was spending some time online, a friend from work sends me a message. We start chatting about church and the message that was preached. I then asked him about where he was as far as work and school. He just graduated from college with an engineering degree and is planning on going to graduate school. In the end he wants to own his own construction company and own a restaurant. Nice. I definitely believe in him. Then he said after that he would like to find a good woman. He said that it would be difficult to find - I disagreed. There are soo many single christian women out there...very few single christian men. He will find that special someone. I think its easier for him then me. He said it would be more difficult because he wanted someone with dreams and goals. There are a lot of women like that though. Anyway, the conversation turned to me and why I was still single. I told him that I was just chilling because I had no prospects. He asked if I chill with other people. Of course! I gave him a couple examples...then he asked, "So what if I wanted to chill with you?"....I said "we would chill". He seemed content.

So could this be a new chapter? He is 6 foot something, a practicing christian, very cute, can dress pretty well, well spoken, ambitious, quiet, reserved...He is a good guy. Oh, he is 24. Young. He wants to go to Georgia tech for a civil engineering masters degree. He lives kind of far and he does not drive to work - so I am assuming he does not have a car. He reminds me of Jabari. A good guy who has nothing...but Jabari is balling now with a beautiful house and 5 series beemer. I am attracted to Nehemiah, but not sexually. That is probably a good thing. That will allow us to be friends. A few girls I know have a crush on him. He is NOT interested...its pretty funny. Well, I don't know at all where this is heading. Not quit understanding it, but I will go with it. At least he made a step towards trying to chill with him. That is more then I can say for Tristan. To be honest, I dont think Tristan and I will ever chill. I think that by the time he decides he wants to do something, I will be done with it. Thats good.
Well God, I am a little nervous as to where this is heading, but I trust you. Thank you for showing me that someone has the balls to want to chill with me. Thats exactly what I wanted. Thats what you gave me. I need to start looking in that direction. Thank you!

No comments: